I did something in the theme settigns under desktop>properties
and now everytime i apply a theme the startbar does not change....
so how can i fix this so that startbar gets applied to each theme?

and btw awesome job on the conformation code i typed it in wrong and m email gets banned automatically? had to set up a another email to re-sign up

well i just unistalled and reinstalled as the only option i could think of, so its working again now :X

In the Global Preferences tab of NextSTART and WorkShelf Preferences, there is a 'Troubleshoot' button. This button allows you to reset all your settings back to installation defaults without affecting the contents of your menus, docks and shelves. Saves you from having to uninstall and re-install the program.

As for the confirmation code on this board, were you previously using a Gmail address? All Gmail addresses (and some others) are banned from joining the board, for reasons explained in THIS post.